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Let us realize the arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice.~ Martin Luther King Jr.
The morning of November 5th, 2008, was bittersweet. I awoke that morning, after Barack Obama's historic, with a sense of hope diminished by a nagging despair following the passage of Proposition 8 in California, which attempted to snatch away the equality that that the state Supreme Court granted to same-sex couples just months ago. The Obama campaign slogan, "Yes we can," was transformed into "Yes we did," by revelers in the streets of D.C. and in other locations across the country and around the world. I couldn't honestly join in the celebration without also reminding myself that "No, we didn't."
Six months later, however, the California Supreme Court has failed to overturn Proposition 8 - while, in Solomon-like fashion - leaving intact the marriages of 18,000 same-sex couples who were able to pass through the narrow window of equality before it slammed shut. But this time my disappointment is less devastating, because we've come a surprisingly long way since November 4th.
There's disappointment this time, too, but not despair. We have by no means become as "post-heterosexism" society. But for those of us who have been pushing and pulling this country towards living up to what it claims to be, and what it claims to believe about equality, our destination may still be a ways off, but it is within site. It is not within reach yet, but it is reachable, and the path is a bit clearer.
"No, we didn't," has been transformed into "Yes, we will."
The day will come.
If anything, in the past six months I've become more and more convinced that what I've written over and over and over and over and over again in the last few years is true.
If anything, it's even clearer now than it was then that the trend is towards majority support for marriage equality.
...Simply going about the business of living our lives, and taking care of our families means that eventually the law - if there's any serious commitment to justice - will have to catch up to us. The circumstances of everyday family life will make it more plainly obvious, and painfully obvious in some cases, the cost that inequality exacts from our families, and the inadequacy of half-measures that fall short of equality, and eventually it will appeal to people's sense of right and wrong; because we are and will have been their friends and neighbors for years, raising our families next to theirs, sending our kids to the same schools, meeting each other at church, community events, etc.
The long arc of the universe may indeed bend towards justice, but only because of many hands and many lives bending it closer day by day.
Marriage eq uality will be a reality in this country someday, and now I honestly believe that it will be in my lifetime.
Fortunately, the new ruling does not end the issue. There will almost certainly be a counter-initiative to overturn Proposition 8 as early as next year. The ruling also comes as momentum grows for same-sex marriage around the country. This year, three states - Iowa, Vermont and Maine - have moved to allow gay marriages either by court ruling or legislative action. It appears New Hampshire will follow shortly and legislation is moving forward in New York and New Jersey.
Polls show growing support for marriage rights for all Americans. We remain confident that the California ruling was a temporary setback.
Despite the California ruling, time and momentum are still on our side. New Hampshire's marriage equality legislation may have been sidetracked for further discussion, but it's likely that a compromise bill will be passed by early June, and New Hampshire will be on the way to joining those states that have taken a step forward in equal protection for their citizens.
New York is also very likely to move forward, too. So far, opposition hasn't gotten off the ground in New York.
As the Legislature considers whether to make New York the next state to legalize same-sex marriage, social conservatives have been largely missing from the debate in Albany.
...The difficulties in New York echo those that conservatives have faced throughout the Northeast. Over the last six weeks, Vermont, Maine and New Hampshire have all moved to allow gay couples to wed.
The region has been challenging for opponents of same-sex marriage, in part, because the measures are being decided by state legislatures - not voter referendums where the opponents' ability to motivate large numbers of voters, rather than influence institutional players, has been an advantage.
...The efforts have also been hurt by the lack of a statewide political figure to lead the opposition. The state's two senators, governor, legislative leaders and attorney general all support allowing gay couples to wed.
Even the new archbishop of New York, Timothy M. Dolan, whose upbeat personality and communication savvy suggest he could be a powerful voice on public policy, has no plans to step into the debate, his spokesman, Joseph Zwilling, said last week.
That means, its very likely that by the end of 2009 marriage equality could be a reality in at least four, maybe five, and possibly even six states.
Time is still on our side.
Two years ago I blogged about research which indicated even in 2004 a majority of 15 to 25 year-olds-favored marriage equality. More recent polls show that among those 18 to 34 years old 58% believe same-sex marriages should be legal. Another poll showed that 40% of those under 40 support marriage equality. Even among evangelicals, there's an emerging trend that, if not exactly in our favor, leans away from the opposition.
Seventh, acceptance of homosexuals in the family of God is common. Being pro-gay or anti-gay is not the issue. Emergents recognize that sexuality is far more complex than is generally recognized. To live in harmony with gay and lesbian friends and family members is a part of the emergent's perspective.
No matter how you slice it, an undeniable cultural shift has taken place, and it's because we made it happen.
For younger respondents, this shift may in part be cultural: the result of coming of age in an era when openly gay people have become increasingly common in popular entertainment and in public life, not to mention in their own families or social circles. Familiarity in this case breeds relative comfort, or perhaps just lack of interest.
By virtue of having the audacity to live our lives as if we have as much of a right to as much of life as heterosexuals, we are changing our families, our communities, and our countries.
That the California Supreme Court, the Iowa Supreme Court, the New York and New Hampshire legislatures, and any other court or legislature in the country signifies how far we've come and how much time and momentum are on our side.
The California decision may be a disappointment, but not of the magnitude it might have been in 2004, 2006, or even 2008, when we have fewer victories to count. It's a step back, in some ways, but not a roadblock.
If we keep it up, the day will come.
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What is needed is a realization that power without love is reckless and abusive, and love without power is sentimental and anemic. Power at its best is love implementing the demands of justice, and justice at its best is power correcting everything that stands against love.
~We can no longer afford to worship the god of hate or bow before the altar of retaliation.
~In the process of gaining our rightful place we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred.
~ Martin Luther King Jr.
The proponents of Proposition 8 are, of course, pleased with the outcome.
Gay marriage opponents, who in recent months have seen four more states join Massachusetts in extending marriage rights to gays and lesbians, praised the ruling.
"The voters have decided this issue and their views should be respected," said Andrew P. Pugno, a lawyer for ProtectMarriage.com, the leading group behind the initiative.
Proposition 8 proponents do not plan to challenge the existing gay marriages that were protected by the court, Pugno, Pugno said.
"We see it as really a minor point in ultimately the will of the people being upheld," he said.
"The voters have decided," they're fond of saying. Or "The voters have spoken."
The voters have spoken, and having changed their minds they can speak again. That's the reality of California's initiative process, and it applies to any state that has ballot initiatives. Nothing is ever final, not even a Supreme Court ruling.
This is a double-edged sword for minorities. Voters can take away a minorities rights by a simple majority in one election, and hand them right back in the next. In the short run this is a boon to marriage equality advocates, if they learn from the mistakes of the previous campaign and start doing effective outreach and advertising now, they can turn the narrow margin of defeat into a margin of victory.
But the initiative process in California will continue to prove a threat to minority civil rights. Because what the majority giveth the majority can taketh away, and give back, and take away again - so long as the definition of justice is whatever the majority wants.
"Might makes right," is all well and good when that might is on your side. But nothing, especially in a ballot initiative state, is ever decided with any finality. Everything can change, and everything will change. Eventually, everyone will be on the wrong side of that might made right by sheer mass.
As Kip notes, there was something else at stake in the California ruling, and it wasn't the status of sexual orientation in relation to state laws about discrimination.
It is true, as an axiom, that all political power resides in the people. It is true, as an axiom, that the mob always has the ability to behave like a mob. But these observations are mere matters of unambiguous fact. They are on a par with saying that a person with a gun has the ability to kill. That is a metaphysical statement, not an ethical one - and certainly not a political one.
But such statements, such factual observations, are totally orthogonal to the question of the legitimacy of what "the people" (nee "the mob") do.
Might does not make right. Neither does majority make right.
Except when it does, which is now the case in California.
The majority rule argument, or the will of the people, is erroneously portrayed in the public conversation as synonymous for what is right in a democratic society.
Having the numbers on one's side makes them impervious to wrong. Or as law professor Ken Starr argued before the Supreme Court in support of Prop. 8, it is allows for the people to make bad decisions.
With more than seven million votes cast in the November election, the majority consists of a 52%-47% margin. The l. The latest Field poll indicates those in opposition to Prop. 8 hold a slim 48-47 advantage.
Simple majority rule is a binary decision-making process that is unable, and in most cases unwilling, to examine the limits of its own power, which if unchecked can ultimately lead to the tyranny of the majority.
The concept of tyranny of the majority has its roots in Plato's Republic; it is used in reference to democracies and majority rule. The actual term originated with Alexis de Tocqueville; it is a criticism of any scenario in which decisions made by a majority would place its interests above a minority's interest to the point that majority will becomes "tyrannical."
As another blogger wrote, there is no "right" or wrong under absolute majority rule because "right" is only a matter of debate "between equals in power."
Right, as the world goes, is only in question between equals in power, while the strong do what they can and the weak suffer what they must.
The "strong" in this case being those with greater numbers and the "weak" being those with less. The only "right" is what the majority can do and has the will to do.
Translation: The majority does what they can and the minority suffers what it must.
California isn't the first time we've come across this peculiar conservative desire to live in kind of "state of nature" where "the strong do what they can and the week suffer what they must," because that as it should be. (In some areas. They're not consistent in this, at all.) It crops up almost everywhere the question of marriage equality crops up, as was the case in Georgia a few years ago, when a judge truck down the state's same-sex marriage ban.
Judge Constance C. Russell's order states: "This Court is well aware that Amendment One enjoyed great public support. However, the test of law is not its popularity. Procedural safeguards such as the single subject rule rarely enjoy popular support. But, ultimately it is those safeguards that preserve our liberties, because they ensure that the actions of government are constrained by the rule of law."In other words, the judge is reiterating a core principle of our entire system of government, and not just the justice system: might does not make right. Just because the majority - even the overwhelming majority - wants something doesn't mean that's what should happen, or that what the majority wants is even right. We live in a democracy yes, but it is not yet an absolute democracy.
An absolute democracy, which means unlimited majority rule, is incompatible with capitalism and freedom. This is so because capitalism rests on the principle of individual rights. In an absolute democracy, rights would really have no legitimate meaning because they could always be voted away in the next election. When most people think of democracy, they usually mean a constitutionally limited democracy. The function of a limited democracy is to decide who held political power and how that power is specifically exercised, but what that power is should be strictly defined and limited in the constitution. Individual rights would not be subject to vote.Ours is a democracy that tempers majority rule and protects the rights of minoritminorities because not everything is up for a majority vote. And there's a pretty good reason why, if you stop to think about it.
It is easy to see why a republic is more desirable than a democracy. In an absolute democracy, the majority has absolute power over every aspect of everyone's lives. While this might be fine while your group is in the majority, if the majority sways to the other side you are at the mercy of someone else's whim. The only way to keep everyone secure from the abuse of power is to limit the amount of power that exists in the first place, through the establishment of a republic. Our founders knew this, and not once does the word "democracy" appear in the Constitution.
Maybe this is not something taught in civics classes anymore, or maybe I'm a geek who knows way too much about parliamentary procedure, but protecting the rights of minorities is an essential requirement of democracy.
Yet majority rule can not be the only expression of "supreme power" in a democracy. If so, as Tocqueville notes above, the majority would too easily tyrannize the minority. Thus, while it is clear that democracy must guarantee the expression of the popular will through majority rule, it is equally clear that it must guarantee that the majority will not abuse use its power to violate the basic and inalienable rights of the minority. For one, a defining characteristic of democracy must be the people's right to change the majority through elections. This right is the people's "supreme authority." The minority, therefore, must have the right to seek to become the majority and possess all the rights necessary to compete fairly in elections-speech, assembly, association, petition-since otherwise the majority would make itself permanent and become a dictatorship. For the majority, ensuring the minority's rights becomes a matter of self-interest, since it must utilize the same rights when it is in minority to seek to become a majority again. This holds equally true in a multiparty parliamentary democracy, where no party has a majority, since a government must still be formed in coalition by a majority of parliament members.
...Democracy therefore requires minority rights equally as it does majority rule. Indeed, as democracy is conceived today, the minority's rights must be protected no matter how singular or alienated that minority is from the majority society; otherwise, the majority's rights lose their meaning. In the United States, basic individual liberties are protected through the Bill of Rights, which were drafted by James Madison and adopted in the form of the first 10 amendments to the Constitution. These enumerate the rights that may not be violated by the government, safeguarding-in theory, at least-the rights of any minority against majority tyranny. Today, these rights are considered the essential element of any liberal democracy.
Marriage is a "basic and inalienable right," or so said the Supreme Court in its Loving v. Virginia ruling, which overturned anti-miscegenation laws.
These statutes also deprive the Lovings of liberty without due process of law in violation of the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment. The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men.
Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival. Skial. Skinner v. Oklahoma, 316 U.S. 535, 541 (1942). See also Maynard v. Hill, 125 U.S. 190 (1888). To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State's citizens of liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discriminations. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual, and cannot be infringed by the State.
I'm no legal scholar, but the fourteenth amendment has already been mentioned in discussion about challenging the California ruling in the Supreme Court. And while the Court of Loving v. Virginia might not have been able to conceive of same-sex marriage, and thus the court did not qualify its opinion to prohibit same-sex marriage (though the majority opinion could just have easily read "the freedom to marry, or not marry, a man or woman of another race," instead of "a person of another race), the same principles could be applied to sexual orientation without making any great leaps.
Take away a basic civil right, by a simple majority vote, and what are you left with?
"Your Rights Are Our Rights," read the backs of the t-shirts one gay couple (with 30 years together) wore to one prop. 8 protest. I can guess what they meant by those words, but perhaps it was a statement that they should have the same rights and protections as any married couple.
But that statement can be read another way: "For the majority, ensuring the minority's rights becomes a matter of self-interest, since it must utilize the same rights when it is in minority to seek to become a majority. ...the minority's rights must be protected no matter how singular or alienated that minority is from the majority, or the majority's rights lose their meaning."
Your rights are our rights. Our rights are your rights. Deny ours and you endanger your own - and undermine the system which supports them.
The day will come when you are in the minority, after all.
To other minority groups - including Mormons - I say the same thing that I said when Proposition 8 passed. You may not be gay, but you may be next. You have opened the door to putting minority civil rights to a majority vote.
The day will come when your rights, your citizenship, your humanity is up for a vote. Will anyone else stand up for you? Why should they? Will the people whose rights you so enthusiastically voted away stand up for you? Why should they?
The day will come.
Given time, the day will come when your rights as a minority are the subject of a ballot initiative - when your neighbors vote on wether or not you should have the same rights as them. They will not have a stake in the outcome. They will wake up the next day with the same rights they had the night before. You will not.
We have come a step closer to embracing the idea that might - in this case, in the form of number and votes - makes right.
Justice is what the majority says it is. Or, at least, what the majority says it is today.
The day will come when that changes for you, too.
crossposted on Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters
Now before you continue to read this, stop your laughing and get that smile off of your face. It's not that I feel sorry for LaBarbera. I just don't want anyone to take what's happening lightly. If LaBarbera's group is truly having money problems, then I'm glad because it's one less liar the lgbt community has to worry about.
For years, LaBarbera via various groups (Americans for Truth is only the latest) has unfairly attacked and maligned the lgbt community under the guise of Christian values. This situation is truly a case of karma biting him in the ass.
However, I am reluctant to talk about it. I don't our reaction to elicit sympathy for LaBarbera and thereby generate a way for him to get out of his alleged financial hole.
But since this blog is mostly geared on the lies of the religious right, I will steer towards this story, albeit slightly cautiously.
LaBarbera's piece was supposed to be about civil unions. But apparently he included a rambling plea for money by saying the following:
Dear Readers,
I am writing to ask your help to lift Americans For Truth about Homosexuality (AFTAH) out of a financial crisis, but also to you to do your part to lift America out of her moral crisis. If you support Americans For Truth, it’s probably because you appreciate our direct approach to the problem of homosexual activism. We at AFTAH don’t play politically correct games by trying so hard not to offend anyone that we water down Truth. No, we just tell it like it is, and the homosexual activists hate us for it.
Every day, I receive vicious letters like this from an e-mail containing the name Seth Yatovitz (who gave his e-mail name as “Jesus”) [WARNING: VULGAR]:
Thank You ….For letting me know who you are so I can ream you in your ass even though I am straif traight. Burn in Hell Father [F–ker]! God loves everyone, even gay people like Jesus! I will be saying prayers for your enlightenment even though you disgust me more than any deviant sexual act ever could. Gays are NOT child molesters, they are the children of God.
Day in, day out, Americans For Truth gets bashed by hate-filled bloggers who strangely see themselves as “tolerant.” Of course, there is the childish name-calling (”Porno Pete”) and the lies (I’m a self-loathing, secret homosexual, you know). One godless “leatherman” was so angered by AFTAH’s role in exposing and closing down a homosexual “pig sex” orgy in a Washington, D.C. hotel that he posted a piece titled, “Peter LaBarbera Wants to Have Sweaty Mansex with Every One of You”
Someone should tell LaBarbera that Maggie Gallagher has already cornered the market on the "gays are unfairly calling me names" talking point.
LaBarbera then continues to play the victim and accuses the lgbt community of "destroying" people who speak out against us:
. . . it’s hard to stay committed to truth and principle knowing that a tiny but powerful army of homosexual militants will target you as a “homophobe” and a “bigot” — and try to destroy your career — if you publicly disagree with them. This is precisely what they did to Rick Warren (who appears to be caving), Dr. Laura Schlessinger, and – back in the 1970’s – a brave Christian woman named Anita Bryant.
Maybe that statement reveals why Americans for Truth is having monetary problems. Anita Bryant was a homophobe and a bigot.
For the benefit of the young folks who may not know, Bryant led a successful repeal of a pro-gay ordinance in Florida during the 1970s. Calling the campaign, Save our Children, Bryant used fear and ignorance to unfairly link gays to pedophiles. She consistently said statements like the following:
"As a mother, I know that homosexuals cannot biologically reproduce children; therefore, they must recruit our children"
Bryant villified thousands of lgbts through her ignorance and hatred. Some of us are still angry over what happened as we should be. For LaBarbera to call her a brave Christian doesn't get me angry. It makes me sad that he considers the standard for being a Christian to be so low.
I guess LaBarbera thinks the commandment about not bearing false witness is irrelevant when fighting the alleged gay agenda.
LaBarbera even promises a gift to those who send money:
If you will help Americans For Truth with a tax-deductible gift of $25 or more, we will send you a free copy of the hard-cover book Homosexuality: A Freedom Too Far, by the late Charles Socarides, a man who dedicated his life to understanding homosexuality and helping people overcome it.
He would have done better to offer a free album like Jim Bakker used to do at PTL. At least that would have been more credible.
For the record here are a few facts about Socarides that LaBarbera will never tell you:
- he helped to found NARTH (National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality) which is mostly ignored by the scientific community because of its advocacy of reparative therapy (i.e. ex-gay therapy) and its members' tendency to distort credible information.
- he had suggested that serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer was an extreme example of a gay man, writing "Every homosexual who wants to incorporate the body of his male lover is utilizing the same mental mechanism: incorporation. Most homosexuals are content to do this symbolically. Dahmer was psychotic; he took his homosexual disorder beyond the limits."<ts."
- for all of his talking about "curing lgbts," Socarides's son was not only openly gay but also special assistant to President Bill Clinton and White House liaison to the gay community.
In short, no one took Socarides seriously.
Something LaBarbera can no doubt empathize with.
It's nice to see Daddy D's organization is still chugging along in a different century from the rest of the world. Do you want to know what the plan is for today's woman?
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May 29, 2009God designed a husband to be a provider, protector and leader for his wife. What unique role did God design for her? "The home [is] God's first institution, and it's the one most precious to His heart because the home is [where] God chose ... to reveal Himself to us." | |||||||||
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